The Sims 3 has Gay Marriage! Why I Care

// June 5th, 2009 // All things LGBT

And no one in the gameplay does.

Lyle Masaki at AfterElton tested the new version of The Sims to see if gays and lesbians could get married. He reports: “…after a week of game time, I was able to get a male couple to plan a wedding party and tie the knot.”

We all know how much I really don’t care about gay marriage even though I blog about it often enough.

But The Sims series holds a very special place in my heart. The game, by Will Wright (Maxis), was released 1-2 years after we moved to the United States. My greatest struggle wasn’t just with the culture clash, but with confronting and coming to terms with my sexuality.

The game was a great expression of self-empowerment. It allowed us to pick our appearances right down to an earring, made us the sole decision-makers on how to run our lives. And two women and two men could actually live and sleep together, even though they couldn’t have children together. And the men could actually have babies (if abducted by aliens), but I digress. It was simply a great step forward in gender non-conformity and to give teenagers like me an opportunity to live the lives we wanted.

9 years later, we are still not there. But it was The Sims that went quite a long way in reinforcing that I was normal and loving someone of the same gender was not the big sin that everyone else made it out to be. And I am sure the bold move in The Sims 3 would reinforce this message to a younger generation.

Next two generations, if we survive global warming, I expect to hear – “Mom, this is so crazy. Once upon a time, gays couldn’t marry. WTF?!

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5 Responses to “The Sims 3 has Gay Marriage! Why I Care”

  1. erikasxoxo says:
    June 5, 2009 at 1:03 pm

    I hear ya, little things like this one make very important statements :)

    ps: i freakin’ love the Sims also!

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  2. Prerna says:
    June 5, 2009 at 2:13 pm

    Yeah, I am just getting back into it. If the DREAM Act doesn’t pass, we’ll blame Bejeweled and The Sims

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  3. Firebolt says:
    June 6, 2009 at 10:21 am

    The Sims franchise is progressing in tune with the real world. The sims had their own version of civil unions in The Sims 2. Now as the cause for gay marriage is furthering, our sims have marriage equality. I simply love this game.

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  4. me says:
    July 20, 2009 at 5:25 pm

    I love Sims! My reason of playing the game is the gay marriage~

    I’m a fangurl of YAOI (boyslove aka MaleGayLove), with Sims, I can now simulate GAY encounters between my favourite male anime characters, or even orchestrated dream Gay Lovers. XD

    for homophobics, die bitches~ Noboday cares about you . Gay people do you no harm, you’re just envious.

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  5. NemoGirl says:
    July 25, 2009 at 2:58 am

    I’m a girl too, gay couples are just cute. I don’t understand why people are so opposed to gay people, it does not hurt tem. But just as with the acceptation of black people, it will probably take a while. Society is slow.

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